Tuesday, June 24, 2008

While we wait...





We are still waiting for our travel call to come from South Korea. We don't expect it until August. In the meantime, we got to go to a travel information meeting at our adoption agency. It was so interesting to get the "play by play" of how our week in Korea will go. We will fly into the capital of South Korea, Seoul. It is 15 hours ahead of us, so our days and nights will be completely messed up. The flight will be at least 16 hours long. The climate in Korea during August will probably be hot and humid. After settling in at the guest house connected with the Korean adoption agency, we'll get to meet Sophia on the next business day. We'll only get to spend a couple hours with her before her foster mom, Mrs. Park, takes her back home. Depending on how that visit goes, we may or may not get to have another visit during the week. During the next few days we are supposed to (and excited to) absorb the Korean culture by visiting museums and shopping areas, (basically being tourists). We will be mostly on our own, but there is an extensive subway system in Seoul, so it should be fun finding our way around. We have few goals to accomplish before we come home. We want to take hundreds of pictures, buy 18 gifts for Sophia (one for each birthday as she is growing up), taste authentic Korean cooking to decide what things are worth learning how to make, and soak in as much "culture" as we can. We are getting excited for the whirlwind of travel and the homecoming of Sophia. Jacob is so cute about it all. I wish we could take him with, but the plane tickets are too expensive. Daily, he talks about his baby sister and all the things he will help her with when she comes home. Lately, I've been passing the time by starting to create a "lifebook" for Sophia. It's basically a scrapbook that tells the story, in kid-friendly words, of her adoption. It starts with her birth and has information about her birth-parents and birth-country as well as information about our process of adopting her. This kind of book is supposed to help adopted children feel more comfortable with the story of their birth and adoption, and it can lead to necessary conversations as they grow older about the questions they have about their birth-families. It is totally "up my alley" and I'm enjoying the creative process involved in putting it together. It is a bonding experience even though I haven't met my daughter yet. I've also been trying to figure out what kind of podaegi to buy. If you look at the picture of Sophia on her foster mom's back, you'll notice that she is snug and comfy in a baby carrier. It's called a podaegi, but there are all sorts of styles to choose from. It's customary for Korean moms to carry their babies around in a podaegi even when they are two years old, so I figure it will be a good way to soothe and bond with her right away. I'm hoping to order and receive it before traveling so I can try it out on a few babies. (Chris and Jason, I might need to borrow Luke)!

Wednesday, June 11, 2008

Starting off the Summer Right!

We love our tradition of camping on Memorial Day. Our church life group has been going on at least one (usually two) camping trips each year since we joined about 8 years ago. This year we went to Father Hennepin State Park on Mille Lacs Lake. Each year, it's a slightly different mix of families. This year we were joined by the Skoglunds, Ellisons, Radloffs, and Goodmans (Skoglund's neighbors). We had fifteen kids and 10 adults. It was a great weekend, full of campfires, fishing, beautiful nature walks, games, food and....mud! We had some intense weather on Sunday morning (hail and downpours), but thankfully it passed over and we were able to get on with our fun camping experience. The mud, however, was there to stay. I think the Ellison girls collected enough worms to feed all of the fish in Mille Lacs Lake! Jacob tipped over while riding his bike and got covered in mud from head to toe. The unlucky fishermen didn't get anything more than a couple of bites. Jacob dropped his new fishing pole in the lake, so Chris jumped in to retrieve it. What a great daddy!

Earlier in May, we traveled down to Rochester for a couple of days to visit Pete, Paula, and Michael. They had fun swimming at the "Y." Jacob was pretty excited when Uncle Pete let him use the shop vac in his garage. Pete put him to work by having him vacuum out his car. Later, we went to a nearby park to play. Jacob is so blessed to have a cousin who is the same age! They love being silly together. It will be fun to see how they play together with Ella when we travel to Virginia (she is just a couple months older than Jacob).


HURRAY! The school year has ended! It's an amazing feeling to know that I won't be returning to work until Fall of 2009. I took a one year child care leave for next school year. Jacob and Sophia will both be home with me. I can't wait to see what joys and challenges this year will bring. Jacob's day care provider, Peggy, ended the year with her traditional spring concert. The kids all did a really great job this year.